Message
received this morning on OkCupid, “A ...Being healthy is a huge deal
to me.. So when I see someone who doesn’t take care of themselves, I
can only assume they treat the rest of things in their life the same
way. And if I was in their life it’s not the way I would want to be
treated.” Thanks asshole. Just because I am not a perfect size 2 doesn’t
mean that I don’t take care of myself. I may have a long way to go yet
but I work my freaking ass off!! And THIS, people, is the reason I hate
dating. I KNOW not every guy is like this; but most of the ones I meet
are. Jerk.
- J and C like this.
A WOW. Bet he's a real chick magnet...July 10 at 7:54am via mobile · Unlike · 2
C And now you know why he's still looking for a date...July 10 at 7:56am · Unlike · 11
T I'd write something smartass back to him. asshole.July 10 at 7:57am · Unlike · 2
J He wasn't worth the time of day anyway.July 10 at 7:57am · Unlike · 4
J Asshat.July 10 at 7:59am via mobile · Unlike · 4
M JerkJuly 10 at 7:59am via mobile · Unlike · 2- J "OK Cupid guy- when I see someone make assumptions about someone they don't know, I assume they're a jerkface and wouldn't want them in my life anyways"July 10 at 8:01am via mobile · Unlike · 11
C Yeah.. that explains why he's still on that site. What a jerk.July 10 at 8:16am via mobile · Like
C I got booted from eharmony a few years back because of my size, said the had gotten complaints & that i was simply unmatchable. Wtf?!?July 10 at 8:19am via mobile · Like · 1
A wow. eharmony can suck it.July 10 at 8:21am · Like
C Wow, what a complete idiot. So he's 'healthy', huh? Invite him to Kill a Friend at camp and we'll see how 'healthy' he is.July 10 at 8:22am via mobile · Unlike · 5- A HAHAHA! I was thinking the SAME thing C!!July 10 at 8:23am · Like · 4
- C It could be the first ever RSBC 'Don't Be An A**wipe' Workout - what good times! It would make DUN look like a little b*tchJuly 10 at 8:26am via mobile · Unlike · 3
- J Even better- "Dear OkCupid guy- Not being a presumptive, judgemental asshole is a huge deal to me.. So when I see someone be a presumptive, judgemental asshole to a complete stranger, I can only assume they treat the rest of the people in their life the same way. And if I was in their life, it's not the way I would want to be treated." BAM. Invite him to boot camp and kick his presumptive, judgemental ASS!July 10 at 8:29am · Unlike · 9
J "Actually, the reason I'm like this is because I have a tendency to put everyone else's needs before myself. You however do not have to worry because you're not worthy of such love and attention. Peace."July 10 at 8:31am via mobile · Unlike · 5- C So many great response ideas...July 10 at 8:32am via mobile · Unlike · 1
- A I DO have pretty awesome friendsJuly 10 at 8:34am · Like
- A I invited him to RSBC, "if he's not too chicken".July 10 at 8:37am · Like · 4
G A, I feel your pain. I am fed up with OKC and the bottom dweller jerks. I was stood up on the 4th of July by one of those a$$holes. Oh, and I invited another guy that I was chatting with to Kill a Friend Wednesday and the sissy pants didn't show up.July 10 at 8:40am · Edited · Unlike · 2- J Give him hell, C!July 10 at 8:40am via mobile · Unlike · 5
- C Watch out for the excuses...'I've got a bad knee, bad back, elbow, fingernail, hang nail, sore ears, it's too hot, it's too cold, I'm a lazy ass', etc...July 10 at 8:40am via mobile · Unlike · 1
- G C, the excuse I got was that there was "sudden family emergency". smhJuly 10 at 8:41am · Like · 1
- C Of course...there is always one of thoseJuly 10 at 8:42am via mobile · Unlike · 2
C What a dickbag. Seriously.July 10 at 8:45am via mobile · Unlike · 2
J A - when I was dating I met jerks too..there are plenty of them out there...you just need to sift through the bad ones to meet the 1 good one because he will stick around regardlessJuly 10 at 8:51am · Unlike · 2- C Maybe an RSBC Singles Night special event workout?July 10 at 8:53am via mobile · Unlike · 3
T Who the hell thinks a size 2 is perfect? I eat steaks bigger than thatJuly 10 at 8:54am via mobile · Unlike · 4- J LOL! Good idea CJuly 10 at 8:54am · Unlike · 1
- J oh and A I'm a size 6 and still met jerks so it's not YOU for sure!July 10 at 8:55am · Edited · Like
- G C, that is a great idea! I would help plan that event!July 10 at 9:04am · Unlike · 1
- A C, apparently he is too busy working out at the gym at 4am to attend camp.July 10 at 9:11am · Like · 1
- A He just told me that gym rats and cardio bunnies look better than me so they must be doing better things than me. Then told me not to contact him again unless it is to set up meeting and accepting his challenge: meet him at the gym and match him rep for rep and if I can hang in on his workout he will pay me $100. No, he wont meet my challenge of attending boot camp.July 10 at 9:37am · Like
C Want me to kick his ass with my 44 inch speed board. Your are beautiful in every area.July 10 at 9:40am · Unlike · 2- T how about if you match him rep for rep, he has to go to boot camp? and then you can plant a foot firmly up his ass?July 10 at 9:42am · Unlike · 2
- G A, PM that a$$holes user name to me so I can send him a piece of my mind. Ugghhh....what a jerk!!!July 10 at 9:45am · Like
- A fitnfunNphxJuly 10 at 9:48am · Like · 2
- G he doesn't even have an original user name. what a hack!July 10 at 9:52am · Like
- A His gym: MetroflexJuly 10 at 9:53am · Like · 1
- J Personally, I'd stop giving him attention and headspace. That's exactly what narcissists like him want.July 10 at 10:09am · Like · 1
L ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? WOW, run like the wind! He is SO not worthy of your time.July 10 at 10:27am · Like- C In other words, stop feeding the troll... : DJuly 10 at 10:34am · Like · 3
H Wow.. What an asshole!!!July 10 at 12:05pm via mobile · Unlike · 1
T He doesn't sound fun at all! His name should be futnjerkinphx!July 10 at 3:11pm via mobile · Unlike · 1
K Douchebag!July 10 at 4:24pm via mobile · Like
C Did you send him any reply?July 10 at 7:12pm via mobile · Like
M What an idiot and I agree with the other posters he's just looking to get a rise out of you and he's not worth the effort of your pinky finger touching the keyboard. Sad there are so many people out there like this many of us have had to deal with these narcissistic jerks.July 10 at 7:28pm via mobile · Like
